Sex chat with filthy language

15-Oct-2019 18:33

Let all future rants about dress codes pass by you as th’idle wind, which you respect not. Girlfriend’s pets: How do I talk to my girlfriend about her cleanliness habits specifically having to do with her pets?

She’s normally tidy and clean in all other respects but has a huge blind spot when it comes to her pets.

She stomped off in a huff, and eventually her husband came over and said that she was really upset and that seeing my dress was detracting from her having fun. A friend loaned me a long black sweater and I put it on over the dress.

Later, the bride pointed me out (while using a microphone) and said “she’s not invited.” Later in the night, she came up to me AGAIN to tell me how this had shattered her day.

He has two children from a previous relationship, ages 6 and 10.

They live with their mother (his relationship with her is still tense, though they’ve been apart for three years), and he sees them regularly and is very proud of them.

I’m wondering how to handle this situation, especially since I just got a call from a mutual friend saying that she called her sobbing about how this had really cast a pall over her day.Mallory Ortberg, aka Dear Prudence, is online weekly to chat live with readers. (Sign up below to get Dear Prudence delivered to your inbox each week. (Don’t) talk dirty to me: My husband is a smart, nice, funny guy.We have the same taste in movies, books, and music and have similar political views.At this point, I don’t want to fuel the fire or ever engage again, but I’m stumped—because she seems excited to have a dead horse to beat.A: Good Lord, this woman is grimly determined to be personally victimized by the color blue.

I’m wondering how to handle this situation, especially since I just got a call from a mutual friend saying that she called her sobbing about how this had really cast a pall over her day.Mallory Ortberg, aka Dear Prudence, is online weekly to chat live with readers. (Sign up below to get Dear Prudence delivered to your inbox each week. (Don’t) talk dirty to me: My husband is a smart, nice, funny guy.We have the same taste in movies, books, and music and have similar political views.At this point, I don’t want to fuel the fire or ever engage again, but I’m stumped—because she seems excited to have a dead horse to beat.A: Good Lord, this woman is grimly determined to be personally victimized by the color blue.She lets her cats on the kitchen counter, puts their food and water up there, and never cleans up the hair or crumbs.