Advice on dating and phone call

30-Jun-2020 08:06

" Women somehow clairvoyantly know when you're acting entertaining and funny as a means to impressing or getting validation from them.

If you're adamant about acting entertaining and funny, that's fine.

Some men will try to win a woman over by attempting to act entertaining or funny.

Some of you hopeless romantics might argue: there is a heap of sentimental value encapsulated in the journey of winning over a woman's heart. But in the wake of your efforts your chances are slim to nil of generating ANY attraction with her. When you try to win over, impress, or get validation from a woman, you are making her the Prize in the interaction, not you.

When getting a woman's phone number, the average collective male chooses one of three categories of action.

In most cases, however, he is damned no matter which of the three categories he chooses.

But when you give a woman compliments within the context of trying to win her over, you become a courtier: a flatterer of someone more important than you.

Put simply, you are unknowingly implying that she is the Prize, not you.

Some of you hopeless romantics might argue: there is a heap of sentimental value encapsulated in the journey of winning over a woman's heart. But in the wake of your efforts your chances are slim to nil of generating ANY attraction with her. When you try to win over, impress, or get validation from a woman, you are making her the Prize in the interaction, not you.When getting a woman's phone number, the average collective male chooses one of three categories of action.In most cases, however, he is damned no matter which of the three categories he chooses.But when you give a woman compliments within the context of trying to win her over, you become a courtier: a flatterer of someone more important than you.Put simply, you are unknowingly implying that she is the Prize, not you.Unless you've gotten a woman on the hook, waiting for her to call is not making her chase you, it is passively wishing for her to pursue you.